Strategy : To Respond

My husband Johan and I are both Sacral Generators with the strategy ‘wait to respond.’

This can make us both pretty impulsive as we respond to life in the spur of the moment and often make pretty quick, spontaneous, and instantaneous decisions… which is part of the fun in how we roll!

For example, last year we mutually decided to book flights to Sweden with only a couple of days to prepare for what turned into a four-month trip.

Most recently, we woke up and decided at 8 am it was a good idea to rearrange all the furniture in our entire living room area… right then and there before breakfast.

We didn’t have any prepared idea of what we were doing, we just followed the feeling that we needed to move things NOW.

When we listen and act on those in-the-moment decisions, it is our ‘gut instinct’ guiding us toward what is right for us. And if we overthink, delay, or try to rationalize our sacral knowing, we start to get frustrated (Our living room now looks great by the way – I have a new favorite place on our couch which is by the window overlooking the garden).

When our sacral center responds to something, we go for it! We act fast. It can lead to some pretty impulsive online shopping (lol) but also a lot of in-the-moment excitement and adventure. Johan told me I was going to be his girl the minute he met me (even though my response at the time was “yeah right”)!

Planning ahead doesn’t seem to work out that well for us, but following our response moment to moment and trusting it’ll pan out in the best way somehow always brings us the best results. For example, it was during our four months in Sweden that we got pregnant!

Thank goodness we both seem to respond (to most things in life) in the same way… we’re on the same page with the same timing. I like to think that we’ve calibrated to each other’s energetic field and our sacral centers are responding in tune.

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